Relationship

Relationships are the most important thing for us to understand. Whether the relationship is with a partner, friend, or family member they all reflect back to us what our insides look like. That is why it is most important because relationships work as a mirror of our spirit. That person you love is you, that person you hate is you, we are all one so how we treat others is how we treat ourselves.

That golden rule "Treat others how you want to be treated" I believe it should also state "Treat yourself how you want to be treated" we will only let others treat us as badly as we treat ourselves if we are kind and loving toward ourselves we will not tolerate another to treat us any other way.

I want to talk about that person who you can't stand. How can he or she be a mirror of us? For me it is a guy at my 12 step group he is a control freak and is always speaking matter of factly and thinks he knows everything about the 12 steps. I am kind, considerate, a little shy but never do I act like him so how does he mirror me? Well I am controlling I just don't show it and I would really like to be able to speak my mind but I am constantly thinking about the bigger picture and how to help others so I act with tact. My point is I have a strong dislike for this guy because he does all the things that I am capable of and sometime wish to do. So one way a negative mirror reflects; they do things we deep down know we are capable of but are either scared to do them or will not do them because we know it is wrong.

This is where using the energy of color will help. Once you find the deepest reason you dislike a person just ask where this feeling is located in your body and it will show up as discomfort or just a knowing that you have stuck energy in this location. (When doing this to take your ego out of the equation always use the word "If" this tells the ego you are just playing a game and it will not interfere. "If (insert feeling or emotion) were in my body where would it be". The first thought is always correct trust your intuition. Then ask "if there were a color that could heal or dissolve this stuck energy what would it be". The same as before use the first color or if you get multiple colors use all of them. Ask the color or colors to surround the area of discomfort and dissolve it. You can see this as evaporating or just disappearing and the discomfort is taken to the universal recycling center. After you have done this take a few breaths to center your self and then check to see if the discomfort is still present. With the new energies we have coming at us this simple exercise should clear it up. But some times it is a deeper issue and you may need further assistance such as complementary color breathing or actual interaction with the discomfort to allow it to be heard so it can shift.

Well give it a try and if you need further assistance check out my facebook page or email me and we can set something up.

Thanks everyone!