Relationship

Relationships are the most important thing for us to understand. Whether the relationship is with a partner, friend, or family member they all reflect back to us what our insides look like. That is why it is most important because relationships work as a mirror of our spirit. That person you love is you, that person you hate is you, we are all one so how we treat others is how we treat ourselves.

That golden rule "Treat others how you want to be treated" I believe it should also state "Treat yourself how you want to be treated" we will only let others treat us as badly as we treat ourselves if we are kind and loving toward ourselves we will not tolerate another to treat us any other way.

I want to talk about that person who you can't stand. How can he or she be a mirror of us? For me it is a guy at my 12 step group he is a control freak and is always speaking matter of factly and thinks he knows everything about the 12 steps. I am kind, considerate, a little shy but never do I act like him so how does he mirror me? Well I am controlling I just don't show it and I would really like to be able to speak my mind but I am constantly thinking about the bigger picture and how to help others so I act with tact. My point is I have a strong dislike for this guy because he does all the things that I am capable of and sometime wish to do. So one way a negative mirror reflects; they do things we deep down know we are capable of but are either scared to do them or will not do them because we know it is wrong.

This is where using the energy of color will help. Once you find the deepest reason you dislike a person just ask where this feeling is located in your body and it will show up as discomfort or just a knowing that you have stuck energy in this location. (When doing this to take your ego out of the equation always use the word "If" this tells the ego you are just playing a game and it will not interfere. "If (insert feeling or emotion) were in my body where would it be". The first thought is always correct trust your intuition. Then ask "if there were a color that could heal or dissolve this stuck energy what would it be". The same as before use the first color or if you get multiple colors use all of them. Ask the color or colors to surround the area of discomfort and dissolve it. You can see this as evaporating or just disappearing and the discomfort is taken to the universal recycling center. After you have done this take a few breaths to center your self and then check to see if the discomfort is still present. With the new energies we have coming at us this simple exercise should clear it up. But some times it is a deeper issue and you may need further assistance such as complementary color breathing or actual interaction with the discomfort to allow it to be heard so it can shift.

Well give it a try and if you need further assistance check out my facebook page or email me and we can set something up.

Thanks everyone!

Red and Green

Not only do they make for a great Christmas they are complementary colors. There are different colors in the Chakra system that work to balance and recharge other colors. Today I'm gonna talk about red and green. The root Chakra can been seen as red and is located between the lower hips and goes down through the legs. This is our connection to the earth and is associated with all things man.
Man is a doer and uses fiery energy hence the saying men are from mars.

When red is unbalanced it may result in people being controlling and very fearful. This is why complementary colors are so important. Green is the color of our heart Chakra its location speaks for itself. The heart is where we give and receive all the love the world has to offer. If our red center is unbalanced introducing green will help balance it out. Where there is love there is no fear.

This morning my partner said something to me that was very hurtful. As I lay there in bed I kept rolling it over and over, she means this, or this, or maybe that. It wasn't until I stopped thinking that I was able to find peace. Our mind is a dangerous place to be and mine ran with it, she must have meant that she didn't want to be with me and this was her way of pushing me away. I have a tendency to always assume the worst. My defense mechanism is to run I've been abandoned many many times in my life and have since started looking for signs that it is going to happen again so I can be the one to leave instead of getting hurt again. Knowing this I have more awareness of myself and I can do my best to work through it.

Fear and Security issues result from an unbalanced Red Chakra center and to balance it out I introduced green into the red center. There are a couple of ways to do this all of which involve breathing. There may be other ways as well but these are the ones I know. First and easiest is to focus below the hips and breathe in the color red and on the out breath picture the color green leaving the first Chakra this can be done until it feels right. If there is still a feeling of wrongness place your attention on the center of the chest and breathe in green and then out red this should clear anything up. The most effective way to balance the centers with complementary colors is to swirl both colors in the energy center this gets all stuck and stagnant energy moving. Check out the link below and like my page and I will give you a Complementary Color Therapy session which last for about an hour for only 20 for the first time.

After I did the color breathing this morning I was able to quiet the chaos in my mind and realize my thoughts were mainly fantasies and I was creating more of what I didn't want.

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Update

Things are going so fast over here. My partner and I are buying a house of 5 acres out in the woods. It is amazing, there is a mother in-law 1 bedroom with a loft and balcony that we will either rent out our use as a retreat spot for couples wanting to get away and also get some energy healing while they relax.
The main house is 3 bedrooms and 1700 sq feet which is a little small but very much doable. The house is wired with a generator that powers everything including the 3 car garage with attached office. There are trails in the woods for the boys and the yard is well taken care of. It is so peaceful out there. On the property there are tall evergreens who stand guard and provide us with much needed shade and serenity.
I'm getting a bunch of advertising done for my color therapy business and I am certain I will have my first official client soon =) As of right now I'm working out of the back room at Lemuria here in Yelm, Wa but I am set up with paypal to be able to take clients over the phone. Eventually I want to create a web site but for now I've just created a Facebook page http://www.facebook.com/pages/Color-Full-Therapy/455752077777568#!/pages/Color-Full-Therapy/455752077777568 .


Thank you everyone!

Daily color

Today I asked what I need to know. I asked spirit, my angels, my guides, and my healing team to be present and allow the highest and best to come through. I drew blue with a lesson which states "Speak your truth from deep within". This to me says to listen to the inner voice that ia guiding me and to allow it to use me as a channel. When truth is spoken it will always come from love and love is what energizes the world we are transitioning to. My truth knows no fear. Fear has no room in a loving heart. To speak from the heart ensures the highest and best for all involved.
Let's see what the book says about this lesson.

CREATING FROM THE SOUL-
"Deep within you is something that needs to be expressed creatively. It comes from a place that is soul deep. To deny it means that you are denying the expression of who you are and what your life is about. This denial can lead to an ache in the throat and an ache in the soul. It is time to discover what is blocking this deep desire to create".

To me this is all about fear blocking my true potential. I am not so much scared of failure but afraid of both ridicule and also of success. My truth feels so off from what the society I live in practices and preaches. If I were to express myself from the soul a lot of people would not understand me. This is a fear I will face and change. The other side of the fear is of success this is from past life feelings and also from my up bringing and society. People who were successful were always ridiculed because the people I knew and family I have were of the "have nots". They showed me that others were better off because they were keeping us down (which I know to be false) and I still have this core belief. I will let this belief go.
In my past life I was a very powerful manifester I did not create through the heart though. A major part of me is afraid to allow the use of all my power for fear I will abuse it again. If I always remind myself to create through the heart I will gain the trust of that fearful part of me.

To shift the energy of this lesson I must make a commitment to my self and spirit.
I commit to create my world from my heart allowing all the love and light of the world to shine through me.

Thanks for reading :)